Monday, May 13, 2013

Proms and Second Hand Stores Collide


   Alicia Lanzeby (Left)

 
Meaghan Hurley


It's a fact. Girls search far and wide for the perfect dress for their high school prom. They will spend hours on hours trying on overpriced dresses and fighting with their mothers on how they need it. My thought is that you will be wearing this dress for approximately three hours and their will still be tears and disappointments regarding your date, your up-do hairstyle, and the girl that is wearing the same dress as you (God forbid). Looking back on it now, I wish I had just gone to a consignment or a thrift shop to find that unique dress I had been searching for. I envy Meaghan Hurley and Alicia Lazenby for doing exactly that. They did the prom thing differently and it is very admirable. 

They both have a few things in common throughout the prom dress search. It wasn't their first choice to purchase their prom dresses from a second hand shop but it was in fact their mothers ideas. Alicia says "I got it at a thrift shop because my mother was harassing me about how great all the dresses were, and when I went they had a few nice ones; plus they were cheap." I laughed as she told me this because Mom's are always trying to put their two cents in. Alicia then continues to say "I was sick of my mother bringing home cheap ugly prom dresses for me." Alicia made the right decision to go out on her own time and independently buy the dress. Moms can be too much to handle sometimes when it comes to shopping. As for Meaghan, a popular prom date tells me "It was my 6th prom I had to go to and my parents were sick of buying a new dress for each one." So her Mom gave her a $100 limit and she was off in her journey of finding that dress. As many women know most prom dresses at any department store go for an average of $300. This is a challenge for anyone but Meaghan took this challenge on and ran with it. Many daughters would fight endlessly with their parents and complain that everyone else gets a new dress. Megahn did none of that and accepted this challenge. 


Alicia purchased her amazing find at a family run consignment shop with the name Victorian Rose Consignment Shop for the low price of $50. If more girls knew that there are other ways to find the dress of your dreams for such a low price, I think more of these high school students would take the time to look through their local consignment and thrift shops. Meaghan bought her dress at ReCreations Consignment  in Kingston, MA. Meaghan described her dress as a "flowy floor length babydoll style cream colored one shoulder dress with one black flower." She was also very stoked about it because she altered it a little bit. The dress originally had two straps but she made it into a one strap dress which is what she was searching for in the first place. Buying second hand items gives the buyer more wiggle room to do what they want to it. There is more room for design and putting your own style into it. 


When asking Alicia if she felt any different in the dress she tell me "I don't think it matters that it was previously worn, it's a prom dress. The previous owner probably wore it once and wanted to get rid of it; people wear their friends clothes all the time, which are used way more. Plus it was cleaned before I bought it, so what does it matter." This statement is how people should react when wearing a previously owned dress. Some individuals I know are against shopping at consignment/thrift stores because they think its gross. Alicia made a great point, we borrow our friends clothes constantly so why can't we purchase something that has only been worn once or twice? These two ladies were very smart in their buying decision process even if they had a little push from their parents. 


I respect their purchases 100% and they look beautiful as well. No one can even tell that it isn't from the most expensive department store. Many girls are into the materialistic culture but these two girls took a different path with the prom culture and it is very admirable. 

How to get a Trendy Outfit for less than $20!

Thrift shopping is one of my passions but that doesn't mean everyone likes it. Unfortunately, there is that group of people that dislikes thrift stores, and you may even be that person. Many people have this image of thrift stores as dirty, having unwanted items, and that they only carry junk. Well isn't this just the furthest thing from the truth. Thrift stores contain so much variety because the people that are donating the clothing and items have completely different styles from each other. I guarantee that you will find something you like in a thrift store. Think of all the different individuals styles that are being put out on the racks for the customers to sift through. 

An array of people shop at thrift stores. Whether it be the customers that can't afford regular items, or the consumer that is searching for that inexpensive designer piece, or maybe the collector type that collects antiques from the 1930's. You will come across so many different kinds of people and interesting stories to match. 

Many things in our world are expensive. However, their are so many ways to cut those costs by thrift shopping. Going thrift shopping is all about getting a bang for your buck. Ditch the high end expensive stores and try out a local thrift shop. Don't waste your time spending hours in Nordstrom and getting one blouse for $89.99. Try out a thrift shop and get the same look for less than 20 bucks. Don't be nervous to try on something different. Thrift stores can open your mind to new styles and trends. 

Trends that are so in right now for women are floral patterns, thick belts, and mixing and matching patterns. Celebrities are rocking these combinations. But "regular" people can't afford what they are spending on these outfits. 
Taylor Swift                   Eva Mendes           Dita Von Teese
Kate Beckinsale 
             
My friend Julia and I went to Savers in Danvers, MA to find the latest trends for under 20 bucks. But there are very important steps on how to get the latest trends for a bargain . Step One: Find your local Thrift Shops and map out the ones you would like to go too.
Step Two:  Most thrift stores have certain days when items are half off. Check first to see what days have these specific sales and make sure to go on those days! 

Step Three: Flip through your favorite fashion magazine to see what all the celebrities are wearing right now. Don't get scared of the outrageous prices. At a thrift store you will find a replica of the celebrities garment for so cheap! 

Step Four: Make sure you go in with an open mind. If you forget this step, you may be stubborn and barely look for the item that you want that is probably there. 

Step Five: On the drive over think of the items you are looking for and just look for those specific items. If you take your time looking at every single thing you will become overwhelmed. Stick with the section in the store you like. 

Step Six: Try items on to make sure they fit right. Don't just buy things on impulse, even if they are dirt cheap!

Step Seven: Enjoy Shopping :)
                                                   
         
     
               
          Blazer: $6.99
            Plaid Skirt: $4.99
            White Tank: $2.99
             Belt: $2.99

Yellow t-shirt: $1.99
Free People Floral Shorts: $3.99

Yellow t-shirt: $1.99
J Crew Blazer: $5.99
Lucky Brand Jeans: $5.99
                                   

                                                                                             Floral Blazer: $4.99
                                                                                       Lucky Brand Jeans: $5.99
                                                                                             White Tank: $2.99

White Tank: $2.99
Belt: $2.99
Floral Skirt:$ 2.99
White Tank: $2.99
Belt: $2.99
Floral Skirt: $3.99








Sunday, May 12, 2013

Macklemore Has Nothing on Todd Wemmer


        
       Todd Wemmer is a Communications Professor at Endicott College. As I walked into Todd Wemmer’s office and tapped on the door, I noticed all of his stuff that was scattered around his office. From the pile of rocks on the ground that had me confused to boxes filled with photography books to vintage Polaroid’s, so many items caught my eye. I could tell right away that he had to be a collector and he had a story to tell. Then, my vision panned to Todd as he was intently doing something on the computer with his bulky headphones plugged in.
            If the phrase “thrift shopping” is mentioned on the Endicott campus, Todd Wemmer is the name that comes to mind. Whenever I mention to anyone that I have a blog around the topic of thrifting, their response is, “Have you spoken with Professor Wemmer?” After many students asked me this question, I knew I had to set up an interview.
            Thrift shopping is something that has recently become a popular topic in our society. As I was talking to Todd, he mentioned the popular Macklemore song, “Thrift Shop.”
            “I know there’s that song by Macklemore and it’s a funny song, but I also find it stupid because what it’s saying is that there are only these kinds of things at these kinds of places or the song is really about our true culture,” said Wemmer. “I like the line where he says, ‘I have a broken keyboard so I bought a broken keyboard’ and there is that culture of people that go, that are hoarders who just buy stuff, but the thing I wasn’t aware of is that basically people buy too many clothes.”
            Wemmer first got into thrift shopping because of some hand-me-downs he got from his uncle.
            “My uncle gave me like 3 bags of almost new Brooks Brothers dress shirts and they were just really nice and I thought, ‘Oh I can just get some more of these’ because there could be another color. I went to Brooks Brothers and they like $100 a piece and I thought, ‘there’s got to be another way.’”
            Upon finding out how expensive some retail stores can actually be, he ventured to find deals.
            “I was looking at a used bookstore and next store was this thrift store and I went in there and the first things I bought were these basketball jerseys for my nephew and some football jerseys; They were the ones that were 50 (or) 60 bucks, even the kids ones and they were so cheap, they were like 3 dollars.”
            When Wemmer had his children, he used the art of thrifting to his advantage. “For my kids’ clothes, they grow every 2 weeks; I just started buying everything there and then I started buying my own clothes there and it took a while to figure out that it wasn’t just vintage clothes,” said Wemmer.
            Wemmer added how immense some thrift stores are. “I actually have been going to the salvation Army on Route 1. They have everything, its like their headquarters Salvation Army for the Boston Area. So like all these clothes come in there and it is massive,” said Wemmer. He emphasized how large the Salvation Army is, talking about one of his recent experiences. “Just the other day, I was in there and my son needs bathing suits and there were like 1000 bathing suits.”
            Some thrift stores, like the Salvation Army offer daily or weekly deals. Wemmer hinted at this, saying, “Every single day, they have a tag colored that is half off.” Wemmer continued by saying that, “on Wednesdays, basically everything is half off.”
            Wemmer went into detail as to why he likes some thrift shops over others.
            “I like the Salvation Army for clothes for me and then I like Savers for kids clothes – it’s the best place for kids clothes.”
            Professor Wemmer loves to find the best deals available and shared an experience he had last year at the Shore County Day School thrift shop.
            “I guess they only do this every other year, and its on a Saturday, and I went this last year and I started filling up this bag of kids clothes. I think I got 3 north face jackets, I got swimwear, and a fleet of brooks brothers polos and lacoste and boots,” said Wemmer. What he did not know is how much it actually was going to cost him. “I’m just filling up this bag and then I turn around to one of the ladies and I go, ‘Wait, how much is this stuff?’ and she goes, ‘Oh, the kid’s stuff is free, we’re just taking donations.’ So it was all donation and then I gave them 20 bucks because I had so much stuff.”
            When Wemmer is not at school or thrifting, he is looking for other things to add to his collections. For example, he has a rock collection with rocks exclusively from Marblehead. However, when on his thrift store runs, Wemmer’s spouse does not like to accompany him.
            “She acknowledges that I can find anything that she says we need,” said Wemmer.
            Wemmer has a daughter and a son. Like his mother, Wemmer’s son does not like to go along with him to the thrift shops. However, Wemmer’s daughter is a frequent shopper with him.
            “My daughter likes it and she’s 7,” said Wemmer. “I’ll take her to savers and I’ll say, ‘Whatever shirt you want, whatever you want, you can have it.’ So we go through there, as long as it doesn’t have Hannah Montana on there, she can have it.”
            Negotiating prices in retail stores is something that is not usually done. However, with a thrift store, sometimes it is acceptable. Wemmer does not usually haggle at thrift stores, but did reminisce on one instance that he did.
            “I was at Savers and they had all these winter jackets and I thought, ‘yeah, I need one of these outerwear winter jackets that everyone’s wearing.’ They were all like 10,15 bucks and there was a red Patagonia one and they had it marked at 40... they had 10, 10, 10, 10, 10; they even had nicer jackets that were cheaper,” said Wemmer. “So I said to the guy ‘look, I never ask for anything overpriced’ because I see ladies in there haggling all the time. I said, “This jacket’s 40, look at all these others are 10.” I said, “I just think that’s too high,” and he goes, “Yeah, you’re right, how about 15?” And I said, “Sounds good.”
            Wemmer went on to talk about the anxiety people feel going into thrift shops and how there is too many things around. He also provided an answer for people like that, saying that if you set your mind to one spot in the store and get out if you see nothing, you will not be trapped by everything else the store has to offer.
            “The kids, I know their sizes so I just go in there, flip through really quick, and you’re out,” said Wemmer. “If you start browsing around like, ‘what can I find?’ the broken keyboard, or the kneeboard, or whatever the thing is in the song, then you’re stuck in there and you are going to bring back a bunch of stuff you don’t need.”


Todd Wemmer gave me great advice on the topic of shopping for used items. He really knows the ins and outs of thrift stores and thrift shopping. After he told me about that Salvation Army, I was quick about getting there that Wednesday, I could barely wait to see all the deals they had in store for me. Buying the kids clothes from thrift stores is very important to Wemmer, he thinks it is silly to buy expensive children's clothes when his children are growing at such a fast pace. I call Todd Wemmer an extremely smart consumer. He doesn't fall into the traps of expensive items because he knows that there  will be something similar waiting for him at Savers or Salvation Army. I was so inspired after speaking with him and I cannot wait to use all of the thrift shopping tips he shared with me. 

The Only Kind of Wars I Like


“Storage Wars,” one of A&E’s most well-known television series is on its fourth season and is high ranked in the reality television show world. The show consists of four main buyers that try to bid out one another on abandoned storage units through various areas of California. The show focuses on Barry, Darrell, Brandi and Jarrod. Each episode is set up the same way; first, they introduce the characters with the famous theme song, “Money Owns This Town,” which was made for the television show and was written by Alabama 3. Then, a preview of the episode you are about to experience plays for a brief moment. There are two parts to the show; the first part is the “friendly” competition component. The storage units are dramatically unveiled and the buyers only have five minutes to look at the unit. The rules for the unit is that they cannot touch anything or go inside of it. This heightens the tension of the buyers because they are dying to know if the unit is worth it to gain profit. The action of bidding begins and the intensity starts to build. With Dan, the auctioneer spewing out numbers and the camera panning back and forth between the players, the footage keeps you on the edge of your seat. The music becomes faster and finally someone wins the unit. The second portion shows the buyers, what they find in their units and seeing if they can make a profit from their discoveries. They always find an item in the unit that needs to be checked out by an expert and that is always near the end of the episode. The episode wraps up with what the profits were for the units the contestants bought.



The contestants are what make the show engaging. Each player has a nickname associated to them and that is how they are introduced in the show. Barry Weiss is known as “The Collector” and he is the older buyer with a sarcastic personality. Darrell Sheets is known as “The Gambler” and he is very enthusiastic, loud and usually brings his son along with him to the storage auctions. Jarrod Schulz and Brandi Passante are married and they act like it with all the bickering and arguing they do. Jarrod is nicknamed “The Young Gun” because he is young and always wants to jump the gun on buying a unit. Brandi keeps him in line and reinstates that they don’t have the money to buy every storage unit. They own a second hand store and put the valuable items from the auctions in their shop. The players all have distinct characteristics that allow the audience to create a relationship with each one, whether they love them or hate them. 



“Storage Wars” reveals how the competitive nature works in our society. In some cases, the competitiveness comes off as greed. People are obsessed with monetary gain and when anything has to do with wealth and money, people become competitive and will do anything in their power to essentially “win.” These matters occur constantly on “Storage Wars.” All of the contestants will do anything to get the unit they want; whether it be mocking the other contestants and playing mind games, or having a cocky attitude and thinking they are the best. When people succeed at being competitive, it only fuels their greed to want more and more. If you win something once, you will become more arrogant and selfish. When competition comes into play, you see the person’s true colors.  In one of the episodes in the fourth season, Barry runs up the bidding on a unit that he doesn’t even want just so his competitor will end up with spending more money and he has more opportunities to find out which units are better; his just proves that everyone is working for themselves. As humans, we love competition; we love participating in it, watching it, and starting it. Television shows that portray our cultures interests will instantly grab the viewer.

People do become greedy when competition gets extreme. We are all aware of the viscous “Black Friday”; this day shows how our society really thinks. People dispute for hours on materialistic items that they want on this day and physical fights even break out. It seems excessive when people are fighting for something that will probably end up in one of these storage units. Hopefully, when viewers watch this show, they can realize how silly it is to compete this much over a used item. However, this is what makes it a great show because people can relate to it. The show is relatable to our culture, even if some of our cultural views are skewed.

Storage Wars also reflects our buying culture in America. On the show, they cannot even see most of the items in the storage unit, but they buy them on a whim hoping that it will satisfy their every want and need. This is how we buy things; we blindly know what we are getting. Many times we buy things on impulse, especially things we don’t need. However, the buyers on Storage Wars usually know which units have potential and which units don’t. This show is more than just getting drunk on the Jersey Shore; it’s about knowing what you are about to purchase. It’s about knowing how to make a smart decision and maybe letting a unit go to someone else once in a while. These people have to be knowledgeable; that is what is so great about this show. The audience is not just watching incompetent people buy used items, they are watching people that know how to buy unwanted items because they have educated themselves on what is worth something. There are times that they don’t make the right buying decision, but let’s face it; they are human. They know what items could have potential after going through the new unit and they take it to an expert to clarify if they made a good buying decision. As Americans, we pay for things we don’t need. People buy these storage units to hoard the items they will never use again. Sadly, individuals are paying a pricey fee every month to store this junk. The buyers on this show are making the smart move when the person that owned the unit was not.

Reality television comes with having cheesy one-liners. This is when you have to draw the line between reality and reality television. The audience needs to ask themselves, “Is it scripted?” When the characters are having their one-on-ones with the camera man, I am sure that they are given certain lines to say because one person cannot be that cliché. In one of the episodes, Darrell comes across an item that is used to teach students about the solar system. He took the gadget to a planetarium society and was in search to find out the value. In the “confessional” he says, “I’m hoping the value is astronomy sized (with emphasis on astronomy).” This is just one example where the contestant says a cheesy line. Aside from silly one-liners, the show is very real. They are regular people that do this as a hobby or as a living. After watching this show, viewers can see themselves doing this as a hobby or a way to make a profit. If the stars on the show can do it, anyone can do it. The audience realizes this and that’s why people watch it. It is easy to relate to the characters and we can do what the stars are doing.

This addictive television show does wonders on the mind. It motivates the audience to want to sift through their own items and see what they have of value just like the “Storage Wars” stars. It creates a new mindset in the average consumer’s mind. It may make them want to spend less and focus their attention on what they already have instead of buying without thinking.

The viewers can make this a family activity just like Brandi and Jarrod do as well as Darrell and his son. It can create stronger bonds between family and friends. You can start making storage auctions a tradition. Eventually, the present of seeking out storage units will become a fun memory that you shared with the loved ones in your life.

This show will motivate you, make you laugh, and have you on the edge of your seat with the suspenseful music, the outlandish characters, and the shockingly valuable items. It will educate you on items that you would never know were priceless. It will teach you how to identify the relationships with your own items. The personalities will keep you guessing and you won’t know what is to be expected next. The best part about the show is they have traits that we can all relate to. They are not billionaires, they are the “average joe” type that is just trying to make money like everyone else. After watching this show and becoming addicted to it, it even motivated me to look for used items that can have a large profit. I am very into photography and anything having to do with it; lenses, flashes, and camera bodies. I have a lot of knowledge around photography just like the “Storage Wars” stars have around many different items. Last summer, I was with my family at a multi-family tag sale and spotted a Nikon Speedlight Flash that was brand new. Immediately, I asked how much it was and bought it for $20. After posting it on Ebay and watching the bids skyrocket, the winning bid taking it home for $418 and I was thrilled. After experiencing the same feeling that the Storage Wars stars experience, I could relate to them even more as well as the show itself. Bidding on storage units is what makes them happy. It’s exciting to watch a television show where they are doing something not only for the profit because they love doing it.




Saturday, May 11, 2013

A Trip to Salvation Army


On Wednesday, The Salvation Army off of Route 1 in Saugus is the place to be.



On Wednesdays at this thrift shop almost everything is half off so you better get moving! The white board tells all. 


The first thing I did was go straight to the shoes and i especially don't mind that everything is color coordinated. 



As you browse through all of the clothing you will find that funky thing you are looking for. 


Your shopping cart should look like this. 


Now its time to try on all of the things in your cart. 



Finally! You picked out everything you want. Five articles of clothing for $10.62? I would say that is a steal. 






The Internet's Nightmare




Taxes are everyone’s worst enemy. And very shortly Internet sales tax may be added to this enemy list as well. The Internet once was a place for anyone to start their own business and not have to worry about the brick and mortar store regulations. In recent news the government wants to require online retailers to collect sales tax. This new legislation will discourage many online shoppers. The Internet creates a safe place for entrepreneurs and their new and upcoming business. The Internet is for people to build and grow businesses, but with this new tax plan it will be very difficult for new sellers. This new tax law could limit growth for new business owners.

Ebay started a campaign in March of 2013 that is against the taxing of Internet sales. Since I both buy and sell items from Ebay, I received an email from Ebay’s CEO and President, John Donahoe. After reading the email, I was appalled at what I was seeing. This legislation is going to affect the consumers and the sellers on eBay. As a frequent eBay shopper, I may start to steer away from purchasing items online because I do not want to spend the extra money that goes to taxes. And as an eBay seller, I do not want to take on this responsibility of collecting sales tax from my customers.  This tax legislation will threaten small businesses on eBay because the new tax law will treat them like big corporations. This bill is only beneficial to large retailers that already are successful and do not have to meet the challenges of a small growing company. Congress should not pass this bill partially because it would adversely effect small businesses as they struggle to grow and expand.

Amazon is one of the larger corporations that eventually got on board with the  Internet sales tax legislation. However, five years ago they were completely against taxing online sales and created a campaign in 2009 that focused their efforts on not letting it happen. But eventually Amazon gave in to the Internet sales tax bill and even started to lobby for it.

The government should not mix the buyers and sellers online with customers at standing retail shop. This is comparable to a high school football team competing with NFL teams; it just does not work. Sellers on Ebay cannot compete with established retail stores. Ebay is for independent sellers who cannot afford to open their own shop and is an outlet for individuals to sell their goods. Large corporations like Walmart or even just the local jewelry store should be taxed because they are in a different category. They are not solely online web entities. Physical stores have an advantage over solely online businesses because they combine the best of both worlds. Brick and Mortar shops and the shops website where you can purchase things. Most stores have websites where you can purchase items. However, eBay doesn’t have a store you can just “pop” into at anytime. This new tax law is not fair for the frequent consumers and sellers on eBay.

There are many disadvantages of taxing online stores. If the law passes, online retailers will have to collect taxes from every individual that purchases the items. Each state has an individual tax rate. This means that sales taxes will have to be collected from many jurisdictions. This then translates into filing many different tax reports for each state you sold to. No small business owner is going to want to spend their time crunching numbers and filing paper work. It is already difficult for small business owners to compete with the big corporations. Give them a break. Individuals and small retailers that sell online solely will never be in the same league as big corporations that sell online and in a brick and mortar store. Perhaps this could be reflected in the proposed new Internet tax law. Hopefully Congress will listen to the small independent online retailers and not pass this proposed tax legislation.


Wednesday, May 1, 2013

How to Convince your Parents to buy you Something at a Garage Sale (How to for kids)


Mom and Dad come running into your room early in the morning on Saturday and you know what they are up too. They are about to bring you along to a tag sale. Usually Mom and Dad focus on themselves during their garage sale journey but this time you are going to benefit from the garage sale purchases. Think of all the toys, stuffed animals, and presents that you've asked for past christmases but Santa didn't deliver. This is your chance to convince your parents why they should buy you these toys from the garage sale. You will need to put your thinking cap on and find ways for your parents to buy you things and you will also need to prove to them why they should buy you these items. Here is a list of things you will need to do to get that toy you have been eyeing for months. 

  • When the family gets into the car tell your parents how much you love them and how excited you are to go to the tag sale
  • When you get to the tag sale, point to to things your parents might like and suggest what they should get
  • Once you see a toy that you love show your parents
  • Tell the parents how excited you are about the cost of the toy
  • Explain to them how it will benefit your life and theirs
  • After this tell your Mom and Dad that the sellers will be happy that you like this toy
  • In the end, you should come out with the toy you have been wanting